What do Guys need for a Marriage?
Yes. I am too young to think about marriage. I don’t have a job, not on training nor in any educational commitment. I am, at the moment, a NEET. But recently, a friend of mine sparks my curiosity of what a guy really need to have to successfully settle down and get married with their loved ones.
I lend him Kekkon Dekinai Otoko, a Japanese drama. The drama is basically about the life of an eccentric guy, who’s enjoying his singlehood and he doesn’t have the intention to get marry someone. As the story goes on, he met girls, and somehow those girls become part of his life and that’s how the drama evolves. Well, I didn’t explain properly to my friend when he borrowed the drama. I just told him that the Kekkon Dekinai Otoko literally translated as “A Guy who cannot get Marriedâ€.
Perhaps that’s how he misunderstands. Later that night, he SMS-ed me saying:
“I thought the story is about a guy who have problem with his DICK! It’s only about his odd personality… Cheh, I put too high expectation to it lah…â€
I was like, WTF? My mistake I guess. I mean after all, I forgot to explain to him about the story of the drama. I just translated the title and told him that drama is interesting and funny. And so, I replied him:
“Dick?? Why would you say so? You watch too much porn is itâ€
And I don’t even know why I replied like that. What does porn have to do with his perception on marriage anyway!? After a few moments, he answered:
“Girls nowadays are looking for great sex mah… If your dick can’t do the work, do you think you can attract any girl meh?â€
This sparks my curiosity. What are the attributes to become an ideal guy in a girl’s point of view? Is it money? Security? Looks? Or The “Dick†factor?
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August 10th, 2007 at 10:41 pm
Its 50/50 of all you stated above
Meaning there are other factors you forgot to include… :happy:
August 12th, 2007 at 1:10 pm
watch i think i love my wife-2007 movie then you know about marriage !
it is all about sex lolx
August 14th, 2007 at 10:33 am
Undoubtedly many girls look for all of the above that you’ve said. But the good ones look to the guy’s heart.
The good ones are looking for guys with a caring heart, who is unselfish, and able to understand the meaning behind the words that she is saying.
I’ll give you a tip- often girls will speak one thing, but what they’re saying is not exactly what it means. Usually (but not always) they want to see how well do you think ahead for their well being.
Guys need to learn to have a caring heart for the wife in marriage.
heheh- let’s not get too serious now, but that’s the way it works.
Sex is just a small part of the picture. Becoming a very good friend with your future wife- that will keep the marriage strong…
Just my 2 cents- (i’m married btw)